Not Everyone is Worthy Of Princess Treatment.
You’re not a princess, you’re just a bitch.
Some girls are not worthy of princess treatment because simply they are horrible individuals. Being a black woman in this generation you realize that girls can genuinely be bitches… and not in a good way. Women hate other women but claim to be a “girl’s girl” or preach about following “girl code” but I simply saw that it just doesn’t exist. The projection of being unkind, in nurturing, or the unnecessary commentary about other women — from their bodies, the way they dress, and sense of life — is the exact reason why you are not receiving “princess treatment”... in other words to put it you’re just a bitch.
So what is the definition of princess treatment? Princess treatment is the romanticized feeling of being treated with absolute adoration, care, and attention. We all grew up wanting to be our favorite Disney princess, the clothes, the fairytale happy ending with Prince Charming; so where in life does that correlate with today? Let's face it… Men love bitches. But, men don’t like bad girls with bad morals. As the saying goes “A good girl is worth a thousand bad bitches” but that is not the case anymore. Growing up I’ve seen the sole definition of pretty privilege and getting away with being a pick-me bitch. And I don’t think women today realize the fact that they are being rude because of the generalized normalcy of being non-defensive. “You’re just overreacting, it’s not that big of a deal,” when in reality it is a big deal. I’ve witnessed women today play the understanding victim role. Having the mindset of “Everyone can be good if they just try.” or “I want to be friends with everyone and help them be better,” is not going to give you that princess treatment you deserve. Allow yourself to hold a grudge, but limit yourself to being hateful. Learn to stop giving people grace when you realize nobody is ever going to give you the grace you are looking for.
Every woman has worth and values that are different from each other, but this also builds the association of negative behavior. Now I am also not one to talk… yes I can be “mean” or even a “bitch” sometimes, but I would rather be mean and considered a bitch than tolerate being disrespected. Kindness can go a long way, especially when it comes to being treated as a princess, I mean that is what princesses are — pretty individuals who are given the world. Although, that cannot change the fact that we are human beings. We are going to have strong emotions at times, and we are going to tend to overreact to the little things at times as well, but we should not glorify this significant amount of hate associating with other women, or even men. Princess treatment is the reciprocation of energy. You give feminine energy, he will give back that masculine energy. You offer kindness, he shows kindness. The things you see along the journey will be reciprocated to you every length you go. What goes around will always come back around.